Lately, I've been bugged by my parents and a few others as well about my status with women. Single or taken they all want to know. As soon as my mouth forms what appears to be an "S" being released, they want to know. They want to know what's wrong with me? Did my last girlfriend scar me good? Am I gay? Do I really have someone but in fact just hiding them from the world?

Well I'm laying it all out here for all because I'm tired of answering these questions to be honest.

Yes, I'm single. I choose to be single. Nothing is wrong with me. I have not been scarred by any of my exxess. They are all dead to me. Not because they did something wrong but because the past is simply the past. Didn't care enough for them to want to still care for them after each relationship ended. Yes, I'm very gay. Freaking happy being single. Homosexual? No way! And of course I am not hiding anyone in a closet when the ghost is clear.

I love my space. I enjoy my freedom. I enjoy worrying about nobodies needs but my own.

Unlike most guys & gals my age, I'm really not into the love scene. I'm not into finding the one or anyone with a vagina. I don't go out to pick up women. I've never in my life hit on a lady in the street. It's not my style (not that I have one).

Having a lady by my side will not make me any happier than I am right now. In fact it'll make my mood worse. I'm not willing to jeopardize that just yet or anytime soon for that matter. I'm good with where I'm at. So thanks to all who try to hook me up with whomever but no thanks. Not to mention I will never do blind dates. Ever! You're wasting your time.